New Tattoo!

I got another tattoo today!! I absolutely love it! Danielle is amazing and couldn't imagine going to anyone else.

I've wanted a foot tattoo for a long time, but always had trouble picking what I wanted. I didn't want to get something that everyone else had, and really wanted it to mean something to me.

I love looking up quotes about life, and thought that would be a good idea for a tattoo. When I stumbled on this quote, it really spoke to me and I knew then and there, this would be my foot tattoo.

"Keep your eyes on the stars, and your feet on the ground."

"Keep your eyes on the stars" , to me, means that you should never stop dreaming . Set goals and have great aspirations for yourself. Believe in yourself that you can do ANYTHING!

"And keep your feet on the ground", to me, means to stay grounded and be sensible. Don't fall for everything that life puts in your way. Also when you decide to pursue those "big" dreams of yours, be practical in the way you pursue it. Don't believe things will be handed to you.

This quote could mean different things to other people, but this is what it means to me.

I researched like a crazy person about how painful a foot tattoo can be and the aftercare. Alot of people said it would be the most painful tattoo you will ever experience. To be honest, I disagree with this. It felt uncomfortable at some points, but nothing you couldn't handle. If you look up on You Tube of people getting foot tattoos, some of them are acting like the tattoo artist was pealing off their skin! Screaming and crying, having family members hold them down. One person actually said it was worse than child birth!!!

{ Just a little advice to those who are thinking about getting a foot tattoo, you should get it done in the summertime. Tattoo artists tell clients not to wear regular shoes (and sock) for at least two weeks. If you do, it could damage the tattoo.  }

So here it is, my new tattoo!!

Book Tuesday!

I just finished this book on the weekend.

Synpopsis: Seventeen-year-old Lochan and sixteen-year-old Maya have always felt more like friends than siblings. Together they have stepped in for their alcoholic, wayward mother to take care of their three younger siblings. As defacto parents to the little ones, Lochan and Maya have had to grow up fast. And the stress of their lives—and the way they understand each other so completely—has also also brought them closer than two siblings would ordinarily be. So close, in fact, that they have fallen in love. Their clandestine romance quickly blooms into deep, desperate love. They know their relationship is wrong and cannot possibly continue. And yet, they cannot stop what feels so incredibly right. As the novel careens toward an explosive and shocking finale, only one thing is certain: a love this devastating has no happy ending.


I have read books that did involve incestuous relationships before. They are not something that are easy to read. This story, however, was extremely heartbreaking. You really feel for these characters as they fight and try to deny their feelings for one another. Eventually they do succumb to the temptation, with horrible results.
This novel is a very realistic view of this type of relationship- no matter what you do, nothing good can come out of it.
I agree, it is a sick and volatile relationship. But, while reading it, I tried to see it through their point of view. All they ever had was each other and had to step up and be the parents for their younger siblings. They never had the traditional brother/sister relationship like they did with the others.

Apparently, this is a young adult novel! But it does have a warning on it not to read unless you are 16 and over. I was a little shocked by this, because the author did write a few sexual scenes that were extremely graphic for the "young adult" genre.

I think everyone should give this book a chance. I really enjoyed it and went through tons of emotions while reading it. There were even occasions where I did get a little teary. This NEVER happens to me while reading a book. The author is an amazing writer and found myself just flying through the pages.

But be warned, this story can be a little hard to stomach. It is also a very sad and tragic story.

:)

Inspiration! :)

Found some quotes to look at everytime I am feeling down.

Mix Tape Monday

Due to the fact that right now, life isn't so Hunky Dory, I have to post this song again. Last time I tried posting this song, it didn't work so I am trying it again.


Theory of a Deadman- I Hate My Life. (Note: I do not hate my life- I just love the lyrics to this song! I think everyone feels this way sometimes.)

Sacrifice- Theory of a Deadman

These are two of my favorite sad songs. I love Christina Perri!! :)

Christina Perri- Lonely

Christina Perri- Tragedy

 I hate feeling so hopeless about life sometimes. Things will get better, I know. I honestly believe this.

Maybe I should not write posts on night shifts- they get me all depressed!

The Rough Patch...

{SIGH}

We all go through it. Days when you don't want to get out of bed and face the day. You just want to pull the sheets over your head and pretend that you can sleep the day away. Everything annoys you. From your neighbour mowing her lawn AGAIN to that friend who keeps on insisting how perfect her life is.
I don't like being this person! I'm trying to stay strong, but all I really want to do is scream and freak out. There are days when I  feel that I can never get ahead, no matter how hard I try. I sometimes feel trapped in my work life and do not feel appreciated at all. This is really hard for me because I know I want to work with youth, but the way things are changing at work it's like I feel I have to choose between work or my husband. This is not fair at all!!
I'm just at a rough patch in my life where I need to do some serious thinking.
I have to keep thinking "This too shall pass"...

Tattoo Thursday!

I have come up with a new topic- Tattoo Thursday!! As you know, I LOVE tattoos! When I started to think about it, I was like, Hey alot of my friends have tattoos!! I would love to write blog entries about their experiences with tattoos and advice they would give to others thinking about getting inked! So, I have asked a few of my friends to help my out in the weeks to come but I thought I would start it off with myself!!
So here it goes!

Name: Megan

Age: 24

How old were you when you got your first tattoo: 18

Favorite Tattoo: It's really hard to choose, but I think it has to be the one on my rib cage. It says "Ever Thine, Ever Mine, Ever Ours".

Artist/Shop/Location: Danielle/ Sodalicious/ 550 Main St. Yarmouth, N.S

How many tattoos do you have: 4

Story behind each tattoo: I got my first tattoo when I was 18 with three of my friends. I was extremely nervous and decided to just get a simple star on the lower right side of my back. My first experience was not the greatest to say the least! The tattoo artist went too deep and it bled out :( It was really a mess. For awhile I decided not to get any more tattoos.
When I was 21, I got a new job and really wanted to celebrate it. I found out a girl I went to school with was starting her own tattoo business and knew she was crazy talented! So I made an appointment with her right away. She not only did an amazing job on the tiara on my ankle, but she fixed my star tattoo! I knew someday I would be going back!

At 24, I was going through a really hard time in my life. It just seemed no matter how hard I tried, I just wasn't getting anywhere. I thought of a tattoo I wanted right then and there and went to her studio hoping she could fit me in. She could! I now have the word "Breathe" on my wrist, to remind me to take time for myself and to relax. Above it are three little stars that represent my grandfather, grandmother and my dear friend Anita who past away.

A couple of months later, I was sitting at home thinking that I really wanted to have a tattoo that represented Aaron without putting his name on me. I thought of the poem that was read at our wedding "Ever Thine, Ever Mine, Ever Ours" and made an appointment. So far it is my favorite to date. I have star bursts around it to represent our wedding colours. They were gold, silver and white. She mixed up a few colours and it looked amazing!

Do you plan on getting more: Yes I do. I want to get one on my foot. Little nervous about that one because I heard it hurts but I have a really good idea of what I want. I would like one on my shoulder someday, and that will be it for me.

How does your family/friends react to your tattoos? Have you experience any negativity?: Most of my family and friends are supportive, they usually like my ideas and think they are pretty. My mom isn't a big fan of tattoos though. It usually takes her awhile to come around, but then she is okay with it.
I really haven't experienced any negativity towards my tattoos except the occasional eye roll from mom and her asking "why??" I think tattoos are a way of expressing yourself and they are beautiful works of art. I hear some people ask, "what about when you get older? It's permanent!!!" They are reminders of where you have been and how far you have come. Also, someday your grandchildren will think you are pretty hip! :)

Advice to others who are thinking about getting a tattoo who haven't yet: Think long and hard before you do get a tattoo. Ask yourself, when I'm 65, will I still love this?? Also do your research! Don't just go to the only tattoo shop in your town just because it is there. I made that mistake the first time around. Lesson learned. Talk with your tattoo artist, build a rapport and be on the same page. This is something that will be with you the rest of your life, make sure you love it. Listen to your friends horror stories, but always remember everyone is different and what was painful for them might not be painful for you or vice versa!


:)

I Believe....

I believe everything happens for a reason in your life. It may not make sense now, but it will in the long run. I believe you should live life to the fullest and have no regrets, because at one time it was something you wanted.

I believe you need to be silly in this life. If you take everything to heart it is going to eat you alive. I believe laughter is the best medicine. To sing loudly in the car or shower! To dance like a crazy person while cleaning the house ( you burn more calories that way :) )
I believe in taking chances and risks. I believe in challenging yourself and to get out of your comfort zone every once and awhile.

I believe in marriage and commitment. I believe love means seeing the whole person, flaws and all, and adoring them for it. Love isn't always perfect- it's messy and challenging. That it what makes it so rewarding- knowing that you can be a complete mess, and that person will stick by you no matter what.

I believe EVERYONE has a right to marry! Love does not see race or gender.

I believe in my family and friends.

I believe in writing- I feel it is easier to express how you feel than talking about it.

I believe in KARMA! In forgiving but never forgetting! I believe happiness and living well is the best revenge.

Life is too short to hold grudges- you give them all the power when you do.

I believe that any way you decide to express yourself is beautiful- in tattoos, art, writing, taking pictures... No one understands you better than yourself. Never apologize for it!

I believe in a higher being than myself. I believe in fate and destiny.

I believe in myself.

What do you believe in?